“Friendship Blessings”

August 2, 2017

Gateway Arch, Saint Louis, MO 7-31-17
Crossing the Mississippi River into Missouri Ester took this photo of the majestic Gateway Arch in Saint Louis.

“Friendship Blessings”

Note: We are in the Midwest visiting family and friends and attending three family gatherings in Missouri, Oklahoma and Arkansas. We do not expect the messages will be daily during this time but depending on our schedule, internet connection and so forth we hope to post several along the way. Due to travel we will not be preparing the daily podcast.

Message summary: We thank God for our friendship collection. The really neat thing about this collection is that, unlike other earthbound collections, our friendship can continue throughout our eternal dwelling in heaven. All our friends who follow Christ will be among those with whom we spend eternity where we will continue to enjoy meaningful conversations which will surely include some delicious meals here and there!

“Thinking He was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for Him among their relatives and friends” (Luke 2:44). “Friends always show their love. What are brothers for if not to share troubles?” (Proverbs 17:17).

We are in Tulsa, Oklahoma for a couple of days. Without realizing it, when looking for a motel in Tulsa, I booked a Comfort Inn right next to Brooksyne’s Technical school where she attended her junior and senior years to study cosmetology. This evening she has arranged a gathering with friends from her elementary school, several which were also her neighbors growing up in West Tulsa. Monday evening we had dinner with David and Sandy Simpson. Dave is the friend I’ve had the longest contact with in life. His large family became our neighbors in Belton Missouri over fifty-five years ago when we both attended first grade. We went through grade school and Junior High before my family moved from the area. But Dave and I have stayed in contact all these years. It was interesting to reminisce together over dinner as the wives and Ester politely listened on.

Yesterday, on our way to Tulsa while traveling on the Will Rogers Turnpike, we made our usual stop in Carthage, MO to visit the Precious Moments museum, an incredible viewing of Sam Butcher’s gifting with the paintbrush as he painted hundreds of his teardrop characters within mural settings in the Precious Moments Chapel.  Brooksyne collected a few Precious Moments figurines in the past but we do very little collecting these days. Brooksyne would say cute collectibles inevitably become dust collectibles. So we’ve turned our attention more to collecting friends along life’s journey and we keep adding to our collection.

Of course since our marriage we have mostly mutual friends and for many years now we’ve been taking photographs of these friends. They are placed in a folder on my computer labeled “friends” and many have been placed up on this site. In fact, since around 2005 when we began archiving and posting photos on our site, we have over 1,200 photos in the “people” folder.

Phil with family on Mount Bierstadt 8/1/17One of our more recent friends is Phil, whom we met this spring in our chaplaincy ministry. Yesterday he texted us a photo of himself with his son and grandson on Mount Bierstadt, a 14,065 “fourteener” they had just climbed in Colorado. It’s great that we can still make new friends even as we stretch toward our senior years!

It’s quite a collection and periodically I go through it and reminisce. If you join us for a meal in our home we’ll ask you to sign our guest registry (if we remember), and we’ll likely take your photo. It helps instill memories of past visits from friends and family over the years. We encourage our readers to keep a Guest Book since we regret that we didn’t keep one from the beginning of our marriage as some do.

We enjoy having friends visit our home, but perhaps you’ve travelled with a group of friends to events like CREATION, Family Camp or other settings where many out of town people are staying for several days. We look back at a time when Jesus was only a boy and did just that. He was twelve when the events concerning the daily verse occurred, “Thinking He was in their company, they traveled on for a day. Then they began looking for Him among their relatives and friends” after Jesus’ parents “lost” him after a trip to Jerusalem. Notice that His parents’ sought for Him among their “relatives and friends”. Of course we know that Jesus was actually back with the religious leaders, but the wording of the text indicates that it was Christ’s practice to spend time with relatives and friends. That’s where His parents assumed He would be so that’s where their search began.

I suppose we don’t think much about Jesus having friends as a little boy. But He surely did. It’s normal and healthy to have friends and the Scripture declares that Jesus “grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men” (Luke 2:52). Growing in favor among men would surely include developing lasting friendships.

Jesus considered His disciples to be friends. He said to them, “You are my friends if you do what I command” (John 15:14). Obviously, if they chose to walk away from Jesus’ teaching about God’s commands that would make them uncomfortable in being with Jesus and put distance between them. Later, after Christ’s resurrection, in one of His encounters with His disciples He has this exchange, “Friends, haven’t you any fish?” (John 21:5).

The Apostle Paul was also blessed by many friends. I enjoy this rather obscure passage, “The next day we landed at Sidon; and Julius, in kindness to Paul, allowed him to go to his friends so they might provide for his needs” (Acts 27:3). Paul seemed to have friends wherever he went which means he was regularly making friends along the way.

We thank God for our friendship collection. The really neat thing about this collection is that, unlike other earthbound collections, our friendship can continue throughout our eternal dwelling in heaven. All our friends who follow Christ will be among those with whom we spend eternity where we will continue to enjoy meaningful conversations which will surely include some delicious meals here and there!

Perhaps you will consider your friendship collection today. Make an effort today to contact an old friend. You might also consider making a new friend. It will bless you and it will also bless your friend!

Be encouraged today,

Stephen & Brooksyne Weber

Praying manDaily prayer: Father, we want to show our love to friends in regular conversation and in tangible ways as we reach out to them and express personal interest in their lives. Proverbs 17:17 teaches us that “Friends always show their love”, not only in the good times but we share together in times of trouble upholding, supporting, and bearing their burdens with them on life’s journey. As we mutually bear our burdens we are strengthened and encouraged together. Our lives are greatly enriched by the friendships we establish and grow from day to day. Amen.


With Dave and Sandy Simpson 7/31/17
Dave and Sandy Simpson have both been friends for many years since we met Sandy shortly after their marriage. Dave is a businessman who seeks to honor the Lord in his leadership as CEO of Holloway America. Sandy has a home-based business of her own. It’s a joyous blessing to have friends like them!

Brooksyne with Sharon 8/1/17
Yesterday I met up with Sharon Julian, my cousin three times removed, in Springfield, MO. We typically visit near the fireplace at the Bass Pro since she takes time off from work to visit. We have visited infrequently over the years since she grew up in Tucumcari, NM while I grew up in Tulsa. She and her husband, Ted, have raised three children and now enjoy several grandchildren, all living for the Lord. My dad would be pleased to know I met up with some of his family members and I am delighted in doing so as well.

Weber Grill Restaurant, Indianapolis, IN 7/30/17
In Indianapolis we stopped for a meal at the Weber Grill Restaurant (no relation but I’m sure glad they spell Weber “the right way”).

Missouri Hick BBQ, Cuba, MO 7/31/17
From Saint Louis To Tulsa we traveled mostly on I-44 but periodically got off and rode on old Route 66 in a portion of our journey to Springfield. We enjoyed a nice meal here at “Missouri Hick Bar-B-Que” near Cuba, MO.

Route 66 rocking chair, Cuba, MO 7/31/17
Can you see Ester and Brooksyne on the huge rocker!

CBC sign 8/1/17
We drove by our former college. The campus grounds are still nicely maintained.

CBC sign 8/1/17
It was a sad sight as the college closed down several years ago and now the property is being auctioned off. Stephen and I recalled precious memories of the Lord establishing His calling upon our lives as we attended this Bible School – many precious memories of chapel services, godly instructors, precious friends, and maturing into adulthood in a Bible Institute setting where we were instructed and encouraged to grow in godliness.

Sunnyvale 8/1/17
Sunnyvale, the little church just outside of Springfield where we pastored the first year of our marriage and ministry. It was here that we met some of the finest Christians who were loving, supportive, and dedicated to God. It has been closed for a number of years now as a church was planted nearby and many of the people have attended there in recent years. And some of the most dedicated attendees our Sunnyvale have been with the Lord for many years now.

Sunnyvale parsonage 8/1/17
Our first home as a married couple was this little parsonage right beside the church where we lived from May 1976 till we moved to Pennsylvania in August 1977. We were anxious to plant an Evangelical Church in an area where there were few churches and that’s what led us to Saint Marys, PA where we planted a church and resided for nearly 16 years.


Today’s Suggested Music and Supplemental Resources

“Eternal Vacation”  Video  Dailey and Vincent   From Saint Louis To Tulsa we have traveled mostly on I-44 but periodically got off and travel old Route 66 on a portion of our journey to Springfield, we got off I-44. This music seems appropriate for old Route 66.

“Old Friends”  Video  Bill Gaither and his many friends (more than a few who are now with the Lord!)

“Friends”  Video  Michael W. Smith

“Old Friends”  Video

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